Toolkit · Safety

Red flags

Patterns that recur across the atlas's harm accounts. Use them when a client is involved with a group, retreat, healer or programme, and when you choose a training for yourself. One flag is a reason to ask more; several together are a reason for concern.

1

A promise of cure, or of results no one else can offer

Claims to cure serious illness, to work for everything, or to succeed where all else failed. Healing traditions that last tend to describe limits and who they are not for.

2

Discouraging medical care or prescribed medication

Advice to stop medication, avoid doctors or hide the practice from them. In the atlas, much of the documented physical harm follows this step.

3

Isolation from family and friends

Pressure to cut contact, move in, or treat outsiders as threats or as the cause of the problem.

4

Pressure to stay when it hurts

Distress or worsening symptoms are framed as progress, resistance or a necessary breakdown, and stopping is discouraged.

5

Escalating cost and commitment

More sessions, levels, retreats or products are always needed, often paid in advance, with money linked to spiritual or therapeutic progress.

6

Secrecy and special knowledge

What happens may not be discussed with others; the method is hidden, and questions are treated as disloyalty.

7

A single charismatic authority

One founder or leader whose word cannot be questioned, who stands above the usual ethical and professional rules.

8

Confrontation, humiliation or breaking down

Methods that attack, shame or exhaust people on the theory that they must be broken before they can be rebuilt.

9

Force, restraint or deprivation

Holding, restraint, sleep or food deprivation, or physical stress presented as therapeutic.

10

Unclear or blurred physical and sexual boundaries

Touch without clear explanation and consent, a right to stop, and a professional frame; any sexualisation of the relationship.

Where the atlas records this: The Center for Feeling Therapy
11

Searching for memories that may not exist

Methods that suggest, search for or construct memories of abuse or hidden selves, then treat them as fact.

12

Changing who someone is

Practices that aim to change sexual orientation or gender identity, whatever they are called.

13

Credentials that cannot be checked

Titles from the method's own organisation only, no independent register, no complaints route.

14

No room for doubt or adverse effects

Side effects and bad experiences are never mentioned, or are blamed on the client.

When choosing a training for yourself

In a crisis, follow your crisis protocol. In the US, call or text 988; in the UK and Ireland, Samaritans on 116 123.